Causes of low sex drive (libido) in men
Last Updated on 09/10/2026 by DrHelal, MD Medical Doctor with 50+ Years of Clinical Practice • [Read Full Author Bio & Credentials →]
I am Dr. Helal, practicing at Helal Medical Manila. Over my years here, I have met countless Filipinos quietly struggling with low sex drive. I noticed most suffer in silence—ashamed, confused, and believing they are alone. Men and women of all ages come to me with this concern, yet few dare to speak first. It is one of the most common health issues I see, yet the most hidden one.
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If low sex drive has taken joy from your life, please do not lose hope. I know, all doctors in the Philippines will listen without judgment and investigate the real reasons. Simple lifestyle changes, and personalized care have helped many of my patients recover their intimacy.
In this article, I will explain what Low sex drive is, why Libido or sexual desire can change and the common causes,
Definition of libido and sex drive, in men
Some men wonder why their sex drive became low! How it became less than before. Surprisingly, many of those complaining of low sexual desire are still young, where it is expected that their sexual performance and desire are at the highest levels.
Sexual desire, by definition, is awareness of, and thinking about sexual matters. Decreased sexual desire means lack of sexual interest, less desire to be involved in sex.
– It is normal to lose desire in sex from time to time, also sexual desire is different in different stages of life, usually young men have stronger desire than the old men.
– But a prolonged low sexual desire leads to anxiety. Furthermore, it also may be an indication of a medical condition.
Changes of low sex drive in men
Libido or sexual desire can change from time to time; it may decrease or increase. In this article, I focus on low libido, but it can be higher for some reasons including: the age, your hormone levels, and amount of physical activity. If your sex desire begins to interfere with your life, work, or relationships, consider, this a case of higher desire and you need medical help.
Causes of low libido in men
Low sex drive is rarely just “in your head.” From what I have observed in the Philippines, stress, poor sleep, hormonal shifts, diabetes, thyroid problems, and even common medications often steal desire. Emotional exhaustion, relationship tension, and aging also play big roles. Patients tell me they feel broken or less of a person—but I always explain this is a medical condition, not a personal flaw. Most causes are treatable once we find them
Hormonal Issues:
Low Testosterone (Hypogonadism): Testosterone levels naturally decrease with age, but a significant drop can lower libido.
Psychological and Emotional Factors:
Stress, Anxiety, and Fatigue: High levels of stress hormones (like cortisol) can inhibit testosterone and reduce desire.
Depression and Low Self-Esteem: Mental health struggles are a common cause.
Past Sexual Trauma: A history of abuse or negative sexual experiences.
Relationship Issues:
Conflict or Lack of Emotional Intimacy: Problems in the relationship can significantly impact desire for a partner.
Loss of Intimacy: Neglecting the relationship in favor of work or other commitments.
Medical Conditions and Medications:
Chronic Illnesses: Conditions like diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, obesity, and chronic heart, kidney, or liver failure.
Sleep Disorders: Conditions like obstructive sleep apnea.
Medication Side Effects: Certain prescription drugs, particularly antidepressants (SSRIs/SNRIs) and some blood pressure medications.
Substance Use: Excessive alcohol use or drug use.
Other Sexual Problems:
Difficulty getting or maintaining an erection (Erectile Dysfunction) can sometimes lead to reduced desire and anxiety around sex.
| Category | Examples |
|---|---|
| Hormonal | Low testosterone, thyroid imbalance |
| Medications | Antidepressants, blood pressure drugs, hormonal birth control |
| Mental Health | Stress, anxiety, depression, fatigue |
| Lifestyle | Poor sleep, excess alcohol, obesity, chronic illness |
Summary
- Low libido in men is often caused by low testosterone (hormonal imbalance), which can occur naturally with age.
- Psychological factors like stress, depression, anxiety, and general fatigue are significant contributors.
- Chronic health conditions (e.g., diabetes, heart disease, obesity) and side effects from certain medications (especially antidepressants) can be culprits.
- Relationship issues (conflict, lack of intimacy) also commonly lead to reduced sexual desire.
Read More:
– https://www.healthline.com/health/low-testosterone/conditions-that-cause-low-libido
– hormone.org/diseases-and-conditions/mens-health/decreased-libido
– Sexual health Sexual health basics – Mayo Clinic
– Sexual Dysfunction: Disorders, Causes, Types & Treatment
– Healthy Lifestyle for Men: Effective Tips for Wellness
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